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Is Giving A Gift Ok?

Hi Judge. I was wondering if it is ok to give my husband a gift for steak and blowjob day? I gave him a gift on Valentine’s day every year, but now I’ll only celebrate his day in March so he can concentrate on me in February. Don’t worry. He will already be getting a blowjob and nice dinner at a local steakhouse. -... 

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My Birthday Is March 14?

Steak And BJ Day is the same day as my birthday. What do you suggest since my birthday is MY day? - Kate Dear Kate, Most people can agree that your birthday should be a day about you. If you can’t celebrate Steak and BJ Day on March 14, for any reason, then it is acceptable to celebrate the holiday a day or two early.... 

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Is Grilled Chicken Ok?

My boyfriend’s favorite food is grilled chicken. Is this ok or do I need to make him a steak? - Leslie Dear Leslie, The word “steak” can be substituted for any other food choice that your boyfriend likes. Serving your boyfriend his favorite dish, either before or after giving him a blowjob, will make Steak... 

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No Red Lobster On Valentine’s Day?

My boyfriend told me about this holiday so I looked it up and found your website. We spent Valentine’s Day at his brother’s basketball game. No flowers and no Red Lobster. Now he tells me I need to suck his dick in March. WTF? - Mad As Hell Dear Mad As Hell, Your boyfriend made no effort to make Valentine’s... 

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My Husband Doesn’t Like Steak?

My husband isn’t a big fan of steak. I love to give him blowjobs so this part isn’t a problem. Do I still need to make him a steak even though he won’t eat it? I love him and want to celebrate the holiday the right way. Please help! – Monica C. Dear Monica, The purpose of the holiday is to show your... 

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