How To Give The Perfect Blowjob

Girls, this is my technique for giving a great blow job.

A great blow job is planned, and your man will remember it if you take the initiative. Make sure you are looking good and smelling good, and you are somewhere where you can kneel between his legs while he is sitting. The location for the perfect blow job is very important. You need to be somewhere where he can relax and not have to worry about being seen or heard. Whisper in his ear that you want to suck his cock, and then take his hand and lead him to a chair and push him down to a seated position. Remove his shirt and suck on his nipples and slowly kiss your way down to his crotch. Don’t take his cock out yet. Put your mouth over his cock and blow your hot breath through his pants onto his cock, which should be throbbing right now. Slowly unzip his pants and help him out of them. Don’t try and give him a BJ with his cock sticking through his zipper. Get him out of his pants so that you have total access to his balls.

Stroke his cock while licking the shaft while making eye contact with him. With your mouth a couple of inches away from his cock, spit onto his cock. Make a dirty nasty show of it. Stroke your spit up and down the shaft and slap the head of his cock against your tongue. Now make your way down to the base of his cock, and push his cock back onto his stomach so that you have total access to his balls. Make sure he is sitting forward in the chair so his balls are kind of hanging out there. While you stroke his cock, begin to lick his ball sack. Take your time with this. He may be anxious for you to take his cock into your mouth, but believe me, he will appreciate this if you take your time. Gently take his balls into your mouth, one at a time. Some guys are extremely sensitive, so be very careful. If you are brave enough and really want to blow his mind, run your tongue behind his balls and lick the area between his balls and his asshole. Run your tongue as close to his asshole as you are brave enough to get. Most guys get really hard when you are doing this. Continue to make eye contact often, and encourage your guy to watch you.

Now make your way back up to the head of his cock, and take the head into your mouth. Get up on your knees so that you are in a good position and angle to get his cock deep into your mouth. I will not go into deep throating, but if you learn how to get your guy’s cock into your throat, you will own him.

Use your dominant hand to grip the shaft; take your other hand, and with your forefinger and thumb, grab his testicles close to his body so that you are gripping the loose skin above the testicles. Be careful not to squeeze his actual testicles; make sure they are below where you are gripping with your finger and thumb. As you suck on his cock, apply constant downward pressure on his ball sack. Don’t jerk or stroke his balls, but apply a constant pull. As he gets closer to an orgasm, you will be able to increase the force. Take it slowly.

Now, the best way to describe the perfect blow job is to think of it as a face fuck. You will start the rhythm, but you need to let your guy set the pace. As he gets into it, make sure you match your rhythm to his. Let him be as aggressive as you can handle. If he gets aggressive, moan with pleasure and approval. Let your mouth and tongue do most of the work, and use your hand only as a slight assist. Avoid long strokes of his shaft. Most guys find this annoying, and avoid any twisting motions. Remember that the most sensitive area of your guy’s cock is on the underside, just below the tip. As you suck, give this area some firm pressure with your tongue and lips. At some point during this face fuck, you will take a short break and look your man in the eyes; tell him you love to suck his cock and you want him to cum in your mouth.

Go back to work and get into a synchronized rhythm with your guy. Don’t make the mistake of trying to go too fast. When your guy is close to cumming, you will know and this is the time to go gonzo on his cock. Hard fast sucking, and milking with your hand. Pull down on his balls, and let your stoking hand go all the way to the base of the shaft to simulate how it would feel for him if he was slamming his cock into your pussy right now.

Now, there are two proper ways to finish the job. The first way is to take his cock into your throat as he starts to cum, and let him pump into your throat until he is ready to pull out. Milk his cock with your mouth and hand but keep the head as far back in your mouth or throat as you can comfortably handle. Don’t be the first one to stop. Let your guy be the one to pull his cock out of your mouth when he is ready. The other way to finish the job is to take your mouth off as he starts to cum and grip the shaft firmly, just below the head, and jack him off while putting on a nasty show for him. Jack him off and onto your tongue and lips, and let him see it shooting into your mouth and onto your face. When he has finished cumming, take his cock into your mouth and gently suck it clean and swallow all of his cum. Take your finger and wipe any cum from your lips, and eat it while he watches.


Written by: Beth M. from mynaughtystory.com Used with permission.

Comments

21 Responses to “How To Give The Perfect Blowjob”
  1. Sandra says:

    Nice reading. I have to say those are really good tips. I have read some from other sites and have to say that this is really nice reading.
    The more I learn the more experienced I become.

  2. G says:

    I do admire your enthusiasm and constant pursuit of blowjob perfection. Mostly I’d agree with your technique barring a few points. Fur me the perfect blow job doatesn’t consist of her doing any hand jerking off my cock at all. I need my woman to do things to my cock that I can’t do myself. Holding my cock, guiding it in her mouth, messaging my balls are ok. But no jacking it. The next important miss is spotting on it. That is a turn off for me personally. A lot of guys love it but not I. To me the perfect blowjob shouldn’t be a joyful mess. I should be able to relax in it or walk away after it without a shower or cleanup job. Besides if you want it wet instead of spitting out on it. Put it in your mouth where the spot is! Then after cumming I like to be relaxed, sucked down or slowly through and back up for a continuance into the next one. Why stop at one. And patience is the key. Take your time and make it memorable!

  3. Bloop says:

    Get into see thoating. I shawty can’t deep throat don’t suck sick. Oh and a girl laying on her back while he puts his cock in is the best way to make sure it hits the back of your throat ;)

  4. M says:

    As I guy, I can confirm, that sounds like the best blowjob ever. I asked my gf to pull my balls whilst sucking my off and to start with she was a little surprised, but after a couple of times she really got into it and it was amazing. So long as it’s not too hard.

  5. Jennifer says:

    The first blowjob I gave, if you could call it that, was a DISASTER. I could barely put it in my mouth, much less make any sort of motion or do anything. It kept bumping into my teeth and it put both of us out of the mood within seconds.

    I am still with the guy 4 years later, (and our oral sex is great now BTW!), so if you are nervous about being bad don’t be. If a guy leaves you or makes fun of you because you are bad the first time, that’s not the kind of guy you should be with anyway. The thing that did it for me was reading a Lessons book, that’s what supercharged my learning curve and helped me master the art of oral sex. Still, it all comes down to practice… and practicing the right stuff of course!

  6. Armin says:

    Im a man and i will 100% approve this writing that this will be a mind blowing blow job for a man. Its almost a dream for every man (at least for me). But i would go for option 1 for the ending.

  7. Josie says:

    Ok so you sound very young or you watched a porno and wrote down everything you saw. If you are just giving a total stranger a bj and you want to be in control of everything, then do it the way that is suggested. But if you are with the same man for a long time and bj’s are a regular thing, then for god’s sake learn what your man likes! Spontaneity is what really gets a guy…I mean if you want to do it and all of a sudden he has to fart or isn’t feeling well then you have put yourself in a bad position. Whenever you decide to go down on your man, you start by kissing him. Then if he is in the mood and the cock rises you move down to it. You start by rubbing your hand on his cock and then you slowly move under the under ware if he has any on. You don’t jack it hard or anything like that you just rub it and cup the balls a little bit. Then you kiss the tip or lick it just a little, or swirl your tongue around the tip. This is when you actually put the cock in your mouth. and you suck gently. You put it in your mouth as far as you are comfortable and then you suck gently. sometimes if your guy likes, you can just take the tip in the mouth and create a really good suction with your tongue and the roof of your mouth and just suck the tip. Sometimes it’s fun to deep throat. So if you gag you have to build up to this but don’t go down hard on his cock. Get his cock to the back of your throat and let it go past your tonsils, a lot of guys like this because it’s tighter at the back of the throat. When it comes time for him to cum, have him let you know it’s coming unless you like surprises. If you are going to swallow, it’s easiest to just suck on the tip while he is cumming and then you can swallow as it comes out. Then there is no mess and all you have to do is drink some water and brush your teeth. Everybody is different, Some guys like to do facials and some girls like that. A facial is when a guy cums on your face. So you have to figure out what you like and what your guy likes. No blowjob is the same for every guy. The best advice I can give is that when you are sucking on that cock you make love with your mouth don’t use teeth, try to avoid scraping him. Keep your mouth slightly relaxed, not so relaxed you’re drooling but not so tight that is like an asshole. Just don’t make the mistake of thinking it will go exactly the way you imagined. Seriously though you can read all the blogs and articles about blow jobs. But until you do it a lot and get comfortable with doing it you won’t be good. Remember every guy is different and not everyone is a porn star.

  8. Anique says:

    I love,love,loveeeeeeee the tips you have given I think will make me a better cock sucker thank you keep up the good work

  9. kspot says:

    Finally…well put as I being of knowledge on the subject agree 100% Bravo man.Although I recommend turning around Ass up and letting him f**k the Crap outta me:)talk about have him for life lol I’ve been with him 8 yrs and couldn’t be happier obviously he satisfied

  10. Gabriella Simone says:

    I do love the attention to detail here! I have to agree with “G says” on a few points. Spitting is just trashy and not in a good way. If you need lubrication and want to use your saliva instead of lube, just letting it flow as you lick his shaft is sufficient. But if you and your guy like the hock and spit routine, go for it.

    “G says” made other comment that is spot on and guys love this approach. Use JUST your mouth at times. You won’t rub him raw like your hands will. Most girls way overdo the hands to get it over with.

    Kiss along his thighs, inside just under the balls but don’t touch them yet. If he is laying down, hover over him with your breasts lightly touching or pressing on his cock as you kiss and nibble his stomach and nipples.

    Then bring your mouth closer, breathe your hot breath on his cock, lick lightly around the rim of his cock. Stop. Then quickly suck his cock onto your mouth and use no hands. They should be pressed on his stomach or thighs.
    Use your mouth to suck him in, then continue the suction as you pull up and let him “pop” out of your mouth. Then do it again.

    Alternate doing this, then licking up and down his shaft. Then suck it back in.

    The absence of hands is incredibly erotic and allows him to concentrate on one thing only. Your mouth on his cock. The hands just get in the way. Too much going on. With all that rubbing and tugging its hard for him to really savor the blowjob. That’s the difference between a great blowjob and a handjob.

    This will keep him building up and keep him from coming too soon.

    I do love the reference to the scrotum tug. Awesome technique to use when you are using your mouth.

    Which, I will say, unfortunately, many girls just want to finish the job and move on. A guy can literally do this all night and he will love you intensely for it if you show that you truly and enthusiastically love sucking his cock.

    I see I went on too long. Obviously, I love this topic!

  11. Marv says:

    Nasty, messy = good. Beth want to hang otu some time? :)

  12. Marv says:

    Oh and don’t forget T.W.C.I.M. Talking With Cock In Mouth. A kink that I am surprised is not more widely known and popular

  13. Rad says:

    Im not a teenager Nd yet my sexual drive is at its highest at the moment, by the strong by step description has given me so much confidence that i am SURE my Nd will totalli BE enthraulled by my taking charge of him.

  14. Mike says:

    My wife has always done something I have never encountered or heard of before. It is basically really simple – but will have his abdomen, legs and maybe even toes constrict like all get out. It drives me NUTS! What’s the secret? When he cums – don’t stop, just keep him in your mouth and keep going and going with what your doing. You WILL notice something REAL quick!! I PROMISE! He will curl up in a ball and be screaming!! DON’T STOP — keep going with the blow-job until he can’t take it anymore!! I PROMISE the first thing he is going to say is “Where the hell did you learn that!” — make something erotic up, don’t tell him “from some guy on the internet!”

  15. Arshad says:

    I am 50 years old I love blow job but my problem is i discharged very quickly please give me some advice how to control yourself for long time orgasm.

  16. jb says:

    I cant wait to show my girl this article I tell her she gives the best head and she does it just like you see!!! I am one lucky guy!!lol

  17. Jimmy says:

    I have to say, i thoroughly enjoyed reading that.. Almost as if i were there..
    I agree 100% with this technique.. I dont know if my wife follows your readins, or what, but she does exactly this, almost tit for tat.. Ive never had better.. Not to brag but i had been around, and until her, i hadnt experienced anything in the same leage as what this has done for us.. She even enjoys it, and almost climaxes with me as shes doing it.. I wouldve thought it was a lie, but its become almost a daily occurance, and she really gets pleasure from performing on me.. This was absolutely great for me, and i would say this reading, is spot on, to any woman, and your man will love every moment of it!

  18. Noel Mendez says:

    As a gay man, I was a bit nervous at first about the cumming part because I was afraid of how it would taste, but I finally gave it shot and it honestly didn’t taste all that bad. Make sure they don’t eat greasy, salty, or fatty junk that day though because it does affect the taste of their cum. I’d recommend you give him the BJ before the steak. Lol

  19. Anne says:

    So good to hear how to really let your man enjoy oral sex fully. What I like is knowing I can make my man have a big orgasm and that excites me and it’s really not bad the cum really tats good. I now do this for my man twice a day. I have a happy camper now! Thanks for great advice it really dies work

  20. Fantastic says:

    Super tips, but I cannot stand any attention given to my balls. If your husband tickles easily, leave the balls alone and concentrate on the dick! And the top of the tongue also tickles too much for me to enjoy and I would recommend taking easy with the licker. Even then, by keeping tongue soft and forgetting the balls, BJ tickles a bit first, but when I get more aroused it starts to really feel good. Occasionally you can rest your mouth and just stroke it by hand…or even breasts!

  21. rejoice says:

    wooow, I am not really good at this but seriously I learnt a lot and believe me you, when I meet with my fiance I will make sure he cums on bj. :-0

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