How To Give The Perfect Blowjob
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Girls, this is my technique for giving a great blow job.
A great blow job is planned, and your man will remember it if you take the initiative. Make sure you are looking good and smelling good, and you are somewhere where you can kneel between his legs while he is sitting. The location for the perfect blow job is very important. You need to be somewhere where he can relax and not have to worry about being seen or heard. Whisper in his ear that you want to suck his cock, and then take his hand and lead him to a chair and push him down to a seated position. Remove his shirt and suck on his nipples and slowly kiss your way down to his crotch. Don’t take his cock out yet. Put your mouth over his cock and blow your hot breath through his pants onto his cock, which should be throbbing right now. Slowly unzip his pants and help him out of them. Don’t try and give him a BJ with his cock sticking through his zipper. Get him out of his pants so that you have total access to his balls.
Stroke his cock while licking the shaft while making eye contact with him. With your mouth a couple of inches away from his cock, spit onto his cock. Make a dirty nasty show of it. Stroke your spit up and down the shaft and slap the head of his cock against your tongue. Now make your way down to the base of his cock, and push his cock back onto his stomach so that you have total access to his balls. Make sure he is sitting forward in the chair so his balls are kind of hanging out there. While you stroke his cock, begin to lick his ball sack. Take your time with this. He may be anxious for you to take his cock into your mouth, but believe me, he will appreciate this if you take your time. Gently take his balls into your mouth, one at a time. Some guys are extremely sensitive, so be very careful. If you are brave enough and really want to blow his mind, run your tongue behind his balls and lick the area between his balls and his asshole. Run your tongue as close to his asshole as you are brave enough to get. Most guys get really hard when you are doing this. Continue to make eye contact often, and encourage your guy to watch you.
Now make your way back up to the head of his cock, and take the head into your mouth. Get up on your knees so that you are in a good position and angle to get his cock deep into your mouth. I will not go into deep throating, but if you learn how to get your guy’s cock into your throat, you will own him.
Use your dominant hand to grip the shaft; take your other hand, and with your forefinger and thumb, grab his testicles close to his body so that you are gripping the loose skin above the testicles. Be careful not to squeeze his actual testicles; make sure they are below where you are gripping with your finger and thumb. As you suck on his cock, apply constant downward pressure on his ball sack. Don’t jerk or stroke his balls, but apply a constant pull. As he gets closer to an orgasm, you will be able to increase the force. Take it slowly.
Now, the best way to describe the perfect blow job is to think of it as a face fuck. You will start the rhythm, but you need to let your guy set the pace. As he gets into it, make sure you match your rhythm to his. Let him be as aggressive as you can handle. If he gets aggressive, moan with pleasure and approval. Let your mouth and tongue do most of the work, and use your hand only as a slight assist. Avoid long strokes of his shaft. Most guys find this annoying, and avoid any twisting motions. Remember that the most sensitive area of your guy’s cock is on the underside, just below the tip. As you suck, give this area some firm pressure with your tongue and lips. At some point during this face fuck, you will take a short break and look your man in the eyes; tell him you love to suck his cock and you want him to cum in your mouth.
Go back to work and get into a synchronized rhythm with your guy. Don’t make the mistake of trying to go too fast. When your guy is close to cumming, you will know and this is the time to go gonzo on his cock. Hard fast sucking, and milking with your hand. Pull down on his balls, and let your stoking hand go all the way to the base of the shaft to simulate how it would feel for him if he was slamming his cock into your pussy right now.
Now, there are two proper ways to finish the job. The first way is to take his cock into your throat as he starts to cum, and let him pump into your throat until he is ready to pull out. Milk his cock with your mouth and hand but keep the head as far back in your mouth or throat as you can comfortably handle. Don’t be the first one to stop. Let your guy be the one to pull his cock out of your mouth when he is ready. The other way to finish the job is to take your mouth off as he starts to cum and grip the shaft firmly, just below the head, and jack him off while putting on a nasty show for him. Jack him off and onto your tongue and lips, and let him see it shooting into your mouth and onto your face. When he has finished cumming, take his cock into your mouth and gently suck it clean and swallow all of his cum. Take your finger and wipe any cum from your lips, and eat it while he watches.
Written by: Beth M. from mynaughtystory.com Used with permission.


Nice reading. I have to say those are really good tips. I have read some from other sites and have to say that this is really nice reading.
The more I learn the more experienced I become.
I do admire your enthusiasm and constant pursuit of blowjob perfection. Mostly I’d agree with your technique barring a few points. Fur me the perfect blow job doatesn’t consist of her doing any hand jerking off my cock at all. I need my woman to do things to my cock that I can’t do myself. Holding my cock, guiding it in her mouth, messaging my balls are ok. But no jacking it. The next important miss is spotting on it. That is a turn off for me personally. A lot of guys love it but not I. To me the perfect blowjob shouldn’t be a joyful mess. I should be able to relax in it or walk away after it without a shower or cleanup job. Besides if you want it wet instead of spitting out on it. Put it in your mouth where the spot is! Then after cumming I like to be relaxed, sucked down or slowly through and back up for a continuance into the next one. Why stop at one. And patience is the key. Take your time and make it memorable!